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Re: Values Added: Rootin' Tootin' Edition (Amanda Marcotte & Erica Grieder)
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I am sorry, but if I were to say "her whole purpose in life is reproduction; if a baby is delivered, she will have performed that function, and thus have meaning. Save the baby,"* I would be the shit husband of all shit husbands. *of course, if before hand she had expressed her wish to sacrifice herself for the baby, if it came to that, then things would be different. I am not criticizing someone who does what I described in that context. ** Lest someone claim that this scenario is far-fetched, I will point out that partial birth abortions, while exceedingly rare, are usually done for this very reason. As well, this exact scenario happened for a couple I know. The wife (miraculously) survived, as did the baby, but the guy was in fact the shit husband of shit husbands. |
Re: Values Added: Rootin' Tootin' Edition (Amanda Marcotte & Erica Grieder)
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It's going to be a very odd duck that pictures a fetus. |
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I am pretty sure we are at the point of first principles here (as if this whole discussion isn't a collision between first principles), so I don't think this is a conflict that can be solved through disputation. I am religious. If I recall correctly (and I deeply apologize if I am wrong), you are not. Your notion that the whole meaning of human life is reproduction is one I disagree with at a fundamental level. I am sure you would similarly disagree with my belief that the primary purpose in life is to enrich the lives of other people and to know God. I find your position kind of sad and empty, and pulls for more pity from me that I am normally inclined toward you (not because you are beneath it, but because I assume your life is happy generally). I can't imagine being happy with such a worldview; I hope it works for you. I can't see how, but I don't need to. I am sure you find my beliefs any number of negative adjectives. But here we are. |
Re: Values Added: Rootin' Tootin' Edition (Amanda Marcotte & Erica Grieder)
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Social conservative goals, i.e. their notion of an ideal traditional society, just tends to clash with feminist goals of full equality. The more extreme on either side the more they clash. Even the most extreme social conservatives, e.g. in Muslim dominated countries, aren't actually out to subjugate women for its own sake. They're out to maintain a pure society that isn't polluted by evil western ideas such as women not dressing modestly, tempting men into evil, people using drugs, alcohol, following ungodly ways, etc. etc. |
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2) Now that you've looked up the word, you get to decide if it is a bad thing. 3) good luck. |
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Most of the Bible's statements of purpose for human beings regard their relationship to God and their treatment of other human beings. (e.g. Micah's 'do justice and love mercy and walk humbly with God', the Ten Commandments). |
Re: Values Added: Rootin' Tootin' Edition (Amanda Marcotte & Erica Grieder)
I was surprised to hear Amanda say she came from a family that was hostile to religion. One would never know.
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My point with A.) was not as well executed as I'd like. Women can have all kinds of changes that may affect their thinking (a certain bias to continue pregnancy, I consider it a practical limit on abortions even without laws to regulate it) but I put my trust in their thinking. I understand you could look at is as evidence for biological determinism, but I'll put it out there and let you have your way with it if you like ( figuratively speaking of course ). Even if such a thing didn't exist I would still be pro-choice because to me women are humans that happen to be women as opposed to your inverted formulation. The rest of your points about the topic boil down to biological destiny fused with catholic dogma ( not the religious aspects of course ) When it comes to any questions about whether a non-raped women can have an abortion Quote:
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What it comes down to is I believe what makes us humans transcends our sexual dichotomies. We are male/female as animals, that influences us as humans because humans are animals but the vast majority of our evolutionary heritage, that separates us from other primates, has little to do with our gender or race for that matter. |
Re: Values Added: Rootin' Tootin' Edition (Amanda Marcotte & Erica Grieder)
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A fertilized egg is a baby, a child, a human - truly hilarious. Good luck getting a rational person to believe that. Hell, even the people of Mississippi know better, despite KKK Barbour's support. No wonder that "the earth is 6,000 years old"-crowd are the main faction (literally) toothlessly protesting abortions. |
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This is a topic loaded with emotion. Some people feel they can make a rational argument in favor of abortion and some people feel they can make a rational argument against it. However, despite the Supreme Court's ability to deduce a right to privacy and by extension a right to abortion, this subject has little to do with reason.
My main objection to the pro-abortion argument is the way that the fetus becomes detached from the thing that I think most people feel that it is...a human being. I think the use of euphemisms like "the right to choose" and "reproductive rights" shows that people really are uncomfortable with what abortion is. And I'm glad that people are uncomfortable. Several people here have talked about the fear of becoming a decadent society. I think when people stop feeling uneasy about killing an unborn child will be a very sad day, indeed. Women will probably always seek abortions and I don't think anyone wants to go back to women having them in back alleys. But to celebrate it and make it seem like it's some victory for women is pretty twisted, particularly when women have access to every conceivable type of birth control. In so many cases it's carelessness and because they are told not to worry because this is just a cluster of cells, it diminishes women instead of making them some kind of victors. Actually, it diminishes us all. I think this is the main concern of people who are anti-abortion. |
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Sulla, I'm a hell of a lot closer to being anti-abortion then I was before reading this discussion thanks to you.
I'm still against making abortion illegal, but I have to admit that I can't come up with any good arguments against you. And that puts me in the same camp as everyone else arguing with you here. |
Re: Values Added: Rootin' Tootin' Edition (Amanda Marcotte & Erica Grieder)
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(Conversely, though, if I ask a pregnant woman who has given birth twice already "how many children do you have?" she's likely to say "two, and one more on the way," not "three." If I ask a woman who had a miscarriage "how many of your children are living and how many are dead" she's likely to exclude the miscarried fetus from the count, or at least to specify them as a distinct category.) So, it's not like either use of the word is strange, or invalid, per se, as long as it is clear from context which definition is meant. |
Re: Values Added: Rootin' Tootin' Edition (Amanda Marcotte & Erica Grieder)
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This line of reasoning strikes me as an ex post facto argument, something conjured into being because you've already determined what you want the answer to be. I'm much more inclined to make my guiding principle for determining what is and isn't human something valuable in and of itself, like sapience. Of course that standard is even more problematic than the potential argument, since it's at least possible that newborns or people with severe mental handicaps fail the test, and I, unlike Peter Singer, am not at all willing to deny personhood to them. So I prefer to muddle along. It seems plain to me that simply being located inside of a woman's body isn't enough to deny personhood in and of itself, so I am comfortable outlawing abortion past the point of viability unless the life of the mother is at risk. It also seems similarly plain that simply having a unique genetic code is morally meaningless, so I'm perfectly comfortable with the Morning After pill and first-trimester abortions. As to the remaining harder cases, I don't know and am happy to let the more opinionated sort it out. |
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It is the same with a baby gestating in the womb. Quote:
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Neither the fetus, nor the infant, nor the child, are useful citizens. Neither their survival, nor indeed yours and mine, are assured. Yet we grant them a full array of rights, regardless of their fragility. That the vicissitudes of life might kill a fetus, an infant, or a child doesn't strike me as a compelling case to ensure it with the thin fingers of an abortionist. Quote:
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Yes, I do not think infants are any more sapient in the ten minutes outside of the womb than they are ten minutes before they left. And if not, then what difference of note is there at 3 months in this regard? Quote:
Again, my position is the choice was made at coitus, with plenty of opportunities for people to make the risk of pregnancy statistically implausible. What pro-choice people forget is that the price of liberty is consequence. Abortion is a cheap and bloody method for people to escape the consequence of "sexual liberation". A populace which has a regime of coddling technocrats protecting them from the consequences of choices might as well be thralls. |
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Re: Values Added: Rootin' Tootin' Edition (Amanda Marcotte & Erica Grieder)
Before I begin, I'll just state that I'm pro-choice, but I'm not hostile to pro-life positions, either. When I wrote that reply to you earlier, I was only pushing back to the extent that you characterized abortions as a cyst that needed to be removed. While that could very well be the case for some people, for the people I know that have had abortions, they were not decisions taken lightly. Maybe the younger generation is different, I don't know. With that said...
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The first time a human gives birth to a dog or a chimpanzee, your argument will have weight. Quote:
Responsibility of actions solves almost every societal ill. You are really only saying that we shouldn't expect or demand that people act responsibly and in fact we must compound the irresponsibility by killing children before they are born to contaminate the world with more irresponsibility. In the long run this philosophy only makes things worse, it promotes chaos, as just about every urban area has shown. |
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Actually something is, we have a culture, media and government that condemn personal responsibility and tell us that any predicament we may find ourselves in due to our own ignorance/laziness/stupidity, the government has an easy solution that someone else will pay for. Quote:
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What an odd statement. |
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We actually agree about this; there's a real lack of personal responsibility. Unable to come up with an argument against abortion that will convince most people? Appeal to the government to force them to do what you want them to do. And you're also right about the starving masses in some parts of Africa. It's totally due to the irresponsiblity of the parents. If only those lazy asses would all get jobs as hedge fund managers, things would be fine. |
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*I don't consider myself on either side of this argument in a particular strong way, although I don't think it makes sense to make abortion illegal currently or could be handled well by the law beyond what we can already do. I'm being descriptive of what I've seen here, not critical, and I think some people on the pro choice side similarly are unwilling to see the opposing argument as one that can be held in good faith, and would, in fact, class Amanda among those. One counterpart for the "they must agree about personhood, really, and thus just think babies can be killed for convenience" position is "they must agree with me about the extent of coerciveness that is required to enforce pregnancy, and thus really be focused on control or sexism." And, for the record, I think there are problematic attitudes on both sides for some, but there are also other disagreements that people of good faith can have. |
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Fifty-four percent of women who have abortions had used a contraceptive method (usually the condom or the pill) during the month they became pregnant. Among those women, 76% of pill users and 49% of condom users report having used their method inconsistently, while 13% of pill users and 14% of condom users report correct use It's clear that among other things, better education, understanding of birth control methods would be useful. |
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On a more serious note, anyone who thinks being pro-life somehow makes one immune to the horrible consequences of war needs to check themselves. Quote:
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Erica seemed to be saying "they don't agree with Frank that how they are voting is against their self-interest" and "if that was it, the answer would be for the Dems to improve their messaging." In fact, I think Frank is arguing that the Dems should do the latter, that they are conceding the argument on the wrong topics. Based on my memory of Frank's argument, however, which he may have updated anyway, it is politically simplistic, so I'm inclined to agree with a number of the comments in the diavlog. Quote:
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What's weird about the argument, as stated by Sulla, is that it doesn't seem to be based on an actual belief that the unborn (post-implantation, I guess) have moral claims, that it's inherently wrong to kill them. Maybe that's just a side effect of how he's phrasing the argument, but it's unusual.
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(I think for many people this seems so obvious -- again, like how for others an infant is a person -- that it seems a ridiculous question, but it's not. It's one of the two major disagreements, and thus deserves to be fleshed out more than it usually is.) Quote:
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On the personal level, of course, people who are the most convinced that our current sexual mores are fine (basically, sex outside of marriage for adults is fine, although one shouldn't be careless about it or indiscriminate, and various other caveats common in the various social subgroups), are not necessarily the ones who are going to feel a need to choose an abortion and many of these people will also be among the least likely to be affected by changing the law. There's a connection between youth and failure to use birth control effectively, as well as between moral qualms about what one is going and such a failure. But in any case birth control is so effective that people aren't going to fundamentally change their sexual behavior based on the abortion law changing. |
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Of course if we had a reasonable debate based on actual figures and agreed upon trade-offs it would make the choices that "sacrificers" and non "sacrificers" a bit easier. |
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